The Potty, Conquered

So, about a month ago I finished reading "Toilet Training without Tantrums" by one of my favorite parenting authors, John Rosemond.  I take the time to delve much into the book but will say he advises to toilet train between the ages of 18-24 months.   Of course in my mind, we had to jump on this since Jacob was already 19 months - gasp!  (what is wrong with me??)

On April 17th, we banished all diapers.  And for the past 2 weeks off and on there has been lots of craziness from mommy and plenty of bare-bottom time for Jakey.  Last Sunday we started using the potty-bell, a timer that goes off every 15 minutes or so to remind lil j to sit on his potty.  Getting him to sit there for more than 2-3 seconds was the first challenge.  Getting him to make the connection that he was supposed to deposit something into the potty chair was the next.  This past Friday, however, he really started to grasp the potty's purpose and yesterday he showed the potty who was boss!

I am proud to announce that in the past 30 hours we have only had 1 accident!  (bedtime wetting not included - that will come later)  We even ventured to Catalyst today and he rocked that potty!  I was so proud.  And so relieved that we now have freedom to get out of this house.  The next challenge: helping him find a way to communicate to me he has to go.  That will come though.  I'm not worried.

In retrospect, I should've waited a few more months.  I don't know why I get these crazy ideas in my head and then get so dead-set on doing what I've set out to do.  Stubborn.  It would've been easier to wait, especially since communication has been such an issue for us in this process.  While these 12 days have been some of the longest in my life, they have been worth it.  I know it is not necessarily all smooth sailing from here.  I'm certain we will have our share of "oops" and "uh-ohs."

But I am so extremely proud of my son.  He is truly amazing.  And, together, we have conquered the potty!

He ate what??

We went to storytime at the library for the first time today. Super fun and we're definitely going to need to add that into our routine! It was fun seeing friends from Catalyst there, too. So we were getting ready to leave and we're saying our goodbyes to the teacher, Kathy, and she mentions that Jacob looks sleepy...which he does...but he shouldn't because he slept from 7:00 p.m. - 7:30 a.m. and it was only 11:15 a.m.

We're driving home and I notice he just looks plain delirious! We get home, I handcraft an English muffin pizza on a plate - I'm so excited because he should just love this lunch! - and what does he do? Pushes it away without even taking a bite. What? Weird...I take his plate, brush his face with my hand and he feels warm. Take his temp and it's 101.2... ugh! Grammie & DiDaddy are coming from Florida tomorrow and the last two times they've come to visit we've passed around the yuckies - we can't be doing this again! So I put him to bed and hope that when he wakes up, he will magically be all better.

Three hours later...

He wakes up crying. Not a good sign. I walk in and he has big, crocodile tears running down his face and is sweating. Maybe the fever has broken? Nope... still a low-grade fever... Maybe he wants a drink. Yep! Drains his cup dry. Maybe he's hungry now? Nope, still not hungry... Ugh. We watch a little Sesame Street and then head to Nana and Poppie's for our farewell Ferrer dinner (sidenote: they close on their house tomorrow! SOOOOO glad for them... so sad for us, but again - so very happy their family will be reunited and living under one roof again!).

On our way over, Jacob is miserable. He whimpers a few times along the way. We're almost to their house and he starts full-on crying. If you know this kid, you know what a high pain tolerance he has. He must be feeling AWFUL. So I pull over, give him some ibuprofen and take his temp... still a low-grade fever.

We get to their house; Daddy takes him out of the van, and we go inside. I help Mom get things going for dinner and she wonders if perhaps his two-year molars are coming in early? Good point... he's gotten all of his other teeth way ahead of schedule! So I walk over to the couch where Jacob is sitting on Jonathan's lap watching tv (again, if you know this boy, you know sitting still is not the norm for him), take out his paci and stick my finger in his mouth.

Oh.
My.
Goodness.

Cue projectile vomiting.
And it keeps going
and going
and going.

Along with the multitude of juice came a wet wipe.

What? A wet wipe? He ate a wet wipe?

How did he not choke on it going down? How did he not choke on it coming back up? When did he eat that? How did he get it?

Well, as for answers to any of these questions, I have no clue. But I am super-thankful that this cottony cloth didn't get lodged in his airway or in his intestines!!! Wow. Grateful, shocked, relieved.

So one more layer of crazy... our dog, Tiger, also has an affinity for wet wipe consumption. In fact, I awoke to him 2 nights ago heaving, hacking and puking up one of these himself.

Jacob, no more lessons from the dog, please!

Me, a paintbrush & other random thoughts

Not so sure where this week has gone. I can't believe tomorrow is already Friday... and it's March, too! Wow. I remember when I taught in the classroom that this time of year always seemed to crawl by, counting down until Spring Break...and then Summer vacation. But it is truly going so quickly!

This week has been wonderfully therapeutic. I've spent quite a few hours in quiet rooms, just me, a paintbrush and the Civil Wars pandora station. You see, my parents recently moved into a different house with a little more land and more space to breathe. Two of the bedrooms in their new home were painted tragic shades of turquoise, blue and pink. So, in preparation for the arrival of my grandparents in late April (and to improve the quality of life for those looking at these two rooms in the meantime), I excitedly offered to help them renovate. This wouldn't have been possible without the help of my AWESOME sister who graciously watched Jacob while I've played in the paint the past two days. While the rooms are not complete, a coat of Kilz has toned down the obnoxious shades so it is now tolerable, at least, to gaze upon these spaces. Hopefully I'll be able to help them get these finished up next week. *Sidenote - I'm SUPER excited that my grandparents are moving to TEXAS!!!

Excited about this weekend - headed to Lake Houston COTN for a youth service at which Johnny-boy is speaking and leading worship. We're taking Jakey with us so I'm hoping that his typical good traveling attitude will hold up for the 10+ hours we'll be spending in the van. I'm also excited that we will be going a la caravan with some friends from Catalyst. And we'll get to catch up with Trevecca college buddies! Fun stuff.

Other random thoughts:

• Jacob has started pointing at and discussing anything of interest to him. Yesterday he was pointing to something while on a ride in the van and panting like a dog (his usual dog/animal sound)... but all I saw was a bulldozer. Maybe I missed something. Or maybe they need to get that bulldozer serviced?
  
• We've been jamming to David Crowder's new CD lately; track #5 on disc 2 is a choral song and the only lyric in the song is "Amen." Jacob has been singing along for the "AH" part of this. Of course I'm tickled pink.
• God's provision for us continues to blow me away. While we don't live in surplus, we always have just enough. I will be up to 9 piano/voice students in April which has helped to offset the rise in health expenses we've had. And rising gas prices. Awesome!
• My heart continues to be heavy for my sister and her family. Praying that God will move and work in ways that are best for them. And praying for deep peace in the meantime.
  

A few of my favorite things

• Jacob's cheeks - I just can't get enough of them lately... It's occurred to me that they probably will not be around in their filled-out fashion forever so I'm kissing the mess out of them while they're here!
  
• Jonathan's cologne - I'm loving that he has added this step to his daily hygiene ritual. And, wow, does he smell good?!
  
• Snuggles - Jakey has started becoming more lavish with his love. Previously upon hurting himself, trying to soothe or console him in my arms was like trying to contain a tornado. But lately he wants to rest his head on my shoulder when he's hurt or upset... and while I don't like that he's upset, I love his snuggles.
  
• Smoothies - an afternoon must. Loving the Ninja I got for Christmas - thanks Mom & Dad! Crammed full of whatever fruit I can throw in them (strawberries, bananas, spinach, milk, peaches, pears, the kitchen sink)
  
• Belly-laughs and silly faces
  
• Non-stop gibberish from my little man. I am quite curious what it will be like when these non-sense syllables begin making sense.
  

Naked drumming and other antics

Naked Drumming...so little Jakey has become quite the drummer. Last night I was changing his poopy diaper before putting him in the tub, much to his disapproval. I realized that if I layed the drum on its side and gave him his sticks while he was getting cleaned up, he would be much more cooperative. Thus, the task was quickly and cooperatively tackled. Afterward we journeyed into his bathroom to get the water going in the tub (which takes a little bit) and I look back and he was gone. I go to look for him and, low and behold, he was laying on the floor drumming in all his glory. Was quite a silly site!

Other antics... I'm very proud that my kiddo has now conquered the slide at Chick-fil-a and the one at McDonald's, too. He can now climb up the playground on his own and find his way through the maze of tunnels to the slides. It feels silly to be so proud of these little things... but I think that's a Mom's job.

What's going on

Wow, so almost a whole year has gone by since I've blogged. That's terrible. I love to write and really don't know why it isn't one of my priorities. So one of my goals is to carve out more time to express myself linguistically.

What's going on right now? This should bring us to current state of House of Sprang. So here's the backstory:

• THE BABY Jacob, Jacob, Jacob - he is so sweet, incredibly fun and everyday is truly an adventure with this boy! Some of the milestones we've enjoyed this year include: 1st tooth @ 4 months (Jan) & cutting approx. 1 tooth/month since, crawling proficiently @ 6 months (March), walking @ 11 months (August). Last year this time he was such a teeny tiny baby! Sleep was coveted and the days and nights were all blurring together. Once we figured out the boy was just hungry (who knew babies needed to eat?? umm, totally kidding), his sleep patterns fell into place and mommy became, well, sane again. And now... he's enormous and quite strong, weighing in at 31 pounds at the age of 16 months. He has been in the 97% for height and weight since 6 months so we all believe he will be of grand stature like his daddy. This boy loves to eat breakfast more than anyone I know, so we keep the eggs coming! He is such a ham and loves to make us laugh with his silliness. His current #1 hobby is drumming, drumming, drumming! And on EVERYTHING! From what we hear from our drummer friends, he just may have a natural knack for whacking! *cue ushy-gushy mommy pride* Other hobbies of Jacob's include playing outside for long stretches of time, pushing buttons on remotes, phones, PS3s, and various other no-no items (this must be a boy thing), turning toys and lights on and off, playing, talking, reading and sleeping. On the cloudier side, we have struggled with ear infections a lot this year. Hoping we are currently well and that we've kicked this last round of them... He sure is a tough booger! And even though he's been sick a good deal, you really can't tell.
  
• THE HUBBY This past September we celebrated 9 years of wedded bliss. He truly is my better half and I admire him more than words can say. And he's not just good to look at, ladies and gents. His creativity is a-mazing. Musically through his lyrics, melodies and arrangements... Artistically through his graphic design... Spiritually, I love watching his wealth of knowledge unite with his life. This year he has grown as a designer, youth minister, leader, father and husband. Though these weeks and months have been busy ones, he makes time for the important things. The lasting things. The things that truly matter. And I love him for that.
  
• FAMILY - IMMEDIATE Lots of change here! My sister and her family found out in mid-2011 that they were approaching a move to San Antonio. Waiting for their house here to sell, my BIL worked in SA while she and the kids stayed behind. Very tough! So, just a few weeks ago a contract on their house came through! While one half of me is ecstatic they will be reunited, the other half of me is heartbroken that they are moving in just a matter of days. While topic of moving, my parents just sold their house and have a contract on a beautiful home a little further out in the country with some land and more room to breathe (cause you can take the boy outta the farm but you can't take the farm outta the boy). Will be a super-fun place! We have had lots of fun times all being in the same general vicinity. We will miss the geographic closeness we've had these past few years; it has been such a fun blessing that we thought we'd never really have the luxury to experience being in ministry. While we haven't succeeded in talking Jim and Martha into moving to Texas, we have thoroughly enjoyed many visits from Grammie & DiDaddy (Jonathan's parents)! Words can't express how grateful we are that they have been able to be here with us so much this past year! And we're still working on getting them to make the move... hehe
  
• FAMILY - EXTENDED In June we got to go to Jonathan's cousin's graduation in Kentucky and catch up with a good deal of his family on Martha's side. In August we returned to Iowa for my Grandpa Frank's funeral. While it was a difficult time to say goodbye, I'm so glad we were able to go to be with my Grandma and we had a great time reconnecting with my aunts, uncles and cousins. I heard so many neat stories about my Grandpa that I never knew. A wonderful man.
  
• FRIENDS Lots of friends having babies! So fun to go through parenthood together and great to have others to go to with questions and for advice. I've so enjoyed our Cgroup (Catalyst Small Group), my LTG (Life-Transformation Group), jumping back into the Celebrate Recovery material with some close friends and getting to know local moms in the Rowlett MOMS group. Very blessed to have so many wonderful folks to share life with.
  
• SYNTHESIS This year I've enjoyed becoming more involved in youth pastor wifely things & getting to know our teens better. I love getting to see and connect with them weekly at Synthesis Live on Sunday nights. And the Winter Retreat was just amazing.
  
• WORK I love, love, love being able to teach my wonderful piano and voice students. They are a joy and keep me on my toes! The music nerd within stays satisfied.
  

If you made it to the end, congratulations! That was a hefty blog. I look forward to keeping them shorter and aim to write much more often about day-to-day moments.

If Jacob were a girl...

So, I was tired this morning. Jacob is working on those upper teeth and was up for about an hour last night, having a hard time getting back to sleep. This morning I sleepily crawled out of bed, fed him, changed that crazy-dirty diaper. I was sitting down next to him happily playing in his exersaucer, casually scanning Facebook updates while pumping and saw a post of a friend that said "I put a really big bow on my Madison today for this family. They need your prayers." So, I was curious and clicked the link for the following blog: kandjstaats.blogspot.com

Wow. This couple - she is 27 - just lost their sweet, 4 month old daughter. I read through most of the mother's recent posts and was hit with a flood of emotions. Her honesty, vulnerability, and raw tellings of what she's going through have left me hurting so deeply for her and her husband. I can only imagine what she's going through and it's hit a bit close to home since I am 28...I have a 5 month old... Her daughter was seemingly healthy, smiley, and happy... my son is also healthy, smiley, and - if you know Jacob - he's such a happy boy! She requested that those that have little girls to put big hair bows on them yesterday - the day of Maddie's funeral - in honor of their sweet baby girl who loved her big bows.

I want to enjoy every moment. I want to savor every

smile,

hug,

diaper change,

cry for Mommy,

laugh,

spit-up,

bath,

pinching of my face...

all of the mundane things that many times make it hard to get out of bed in the morning after a restless night, I want to cherish them. He's already 5 months old! 5 months have come and gone... and there is no guarantee for tomorrow.

God, I thank you so much that you have blessed Jonathan and I with the sweetest little boy.

And maybe I'll put a bow-tie on him instead.